Showing posts with label school. Show all posts
Showing posts with label school. Show all posts

Monday, November 8, 2010

And We're Back

Well, it's been about six weeks, so I'll very briefly mention some highlights.

We flew out of state to my husband's (military) retirement ceremony. Jordan flew with her daddy, and I flew with our other daughter so as to increase the chances we'd all arrive (going standby) in time.  One thing which Jordan likes about traveling is she loves staying in hotels (so far she's not caught on to the bedbug outbreak - which is good).  Finding food that she'll like is always a challenge, however.  But this trip, Jordan actually did very well during the Marine ceremony as well as at the reception, and we returned home within two days.  

Oh wait -- I forgot. At the retirement party that evening, Jordan perked up out of her slight boredom when one of the pilots in my husband's squadron took the stage.  It was this guy's job to recognize what the group was sure to miss about Paul in the weeks ahead, by telling some classic anecdotes about him, using humor and props along the way.  I wish I would have had the time that evening to blog about what happened because it's an area which deserves to stand on its own...I'd say maybe ⅔ of the way into this guy's speech, Jordan chimed in something to the effect that "My dad has a lot of gas."  Oh - my - gosh, I wanted a trap door to immediately open under my baby's chair and stop her from saying anything further.  Of course, the Marines thought this child was brilliantly funny, which only fed her desire to say more.  No horrified glares or threatening whispers were going to stop her now - and on she went through the rest of his speech.  But again, all things considered, Jordan was quiet and respectful at the ceremony itself, making this a pretty successful trip.   

Heading back to school that Monday, we learned that one of Jordan's teachers was not returning. An e-mail from the school stated that the teacher resigned, but every cell in my body lead me to feel otherwise. Now many weeks later, all of my instincts still tell me that this teacher was fired. What bothers me most about this can be laid out in two parts. For starters, parents had no part in this decision. Especially having a child who does not acclimate quickly to change, one who has grown to not like school at all, I've been very disappointed that parents were not informed nor asked to share our concerns before any decisions were made. Secondly, I feel that I've had to lie to Jordan about why her teacher is no longer at her school. This whole thing has been a setback to what began as a great year.  Jordan is not happy about school again and she's had to become acclimated to a new teacher, who in return, has had to learn all about Jordan.  In this regard, it's been a fairly difficult month.

The next big thing to occur was Jordan's class trip, of which I was one of the chaperones.  Our group traveled to a summer camp, about a two and a half hour drive from our school, where we stayed for three days to learn about science in the wilderness. Again, Jordan's main struggle was food, but one of the kitchen staff (who told me she herself had been a picky eater as a child) took a special interest in Jordan and cooked her bacon (crispy but not overdone) for two of her meals. To Jordan, this rates high up there with the invention of the television, so Jordan's energy level and her outlook for the rest of the camp experience improved to the highest levels! So thank you Kim - you were her guardian angel!

And so that's what's kept me extremely busy. All of this plus my other daughter's volleyball schedule, having my husband move back home again after 7 years away (for the most part), Homecoming week & Halloween. 

It's all good. My child is wonderfully made.   :)

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."   Psalm 139:14  NIV

Monday, September 13, 2010

When Less Is More

Jordan came home from school today in a pleasant and friendly mood.  She didn't offer up much information about school, except to say that her favorite class today was English and that one of the boys got in a little trouble for talking too much.  I felt awful that I didn't get to spend much time with her this evening, but it was parent night at the high school.  

As I'm sitting here typing this, I'm realizing though that in at least one regard, less really *is* more.  No complaints or hurt feelings today were reported!  Yippee!! Praising You Lord for this!!

Tomorrow will start up another year of girl's friendship club for the sixth graders who are interested. In the past, Jordan has had mixed feelings about attending, questioning how "some girls can go to friendship club and forget the friend part." Sometimes in her innocence she hits the nail dead on. Last year I allowed Jordan to choose whether to go or not, and many times she chose to just come home. But as her mom, I know that shielding her from pain and keeping her from real-life social situations isn't helping her grow.  I'm so hopeful now since her teacher has addressed Asperger's with the entire grade and with the positive response from the students.  Some really appear to have "gotten it."  Again, all praise and glory are His! Isn't it amazing how far a little understanding and kindness can go? I think we all can learn from this.

But that's it for the day.  No telling how tomorrow will go. I'm heading to bed now, enjoying what's left of this rather calm day.    
Good night.

"I sought the Lord, and he answered me; 

he delivered me from all my fears."  Psalm 34:3  NIV 



Thursday, September 9, 2010

Bracing

Just sent an e-mail to her teacher:


Dear Mrs. X.,

Concerned older sister called me on her way to vball and said Jordan was crying out in the hallway a few minutes ago.  I'm so sorry.  Know that if you ever need me, most times I'm able to come right over to assist (although I'm not sure that I'd be teaching Jordan anything positive).

I'm not sure what prompted her "crying like when daddy tries to teach her math kind-of-cry." (sister's description.)

I know yesterday was overload on the stimuli with the tornado sirens, the dog barking, etc.  She also misplaced her Worldview study cards until late last night, so that was quite a bit for her.  Add to that, she's getting a little nervous in Mrs. Xxxxx's room and I believe Jordan has a black-or-white perception of "faces-at-rest" and each person's normal sound volume.

If I were to guess -- since Jordan's day 1 upset over the ants in her locker, she's actually gone longer than she probably ever has without another meltdown.  Maybe things have been building inside of her, mashed together with the stress of tests this week, the tornado warnings yesterday, and a little less sleep last night that she just couldn't keep things together?

I really appreciate you. Hugs to you! "Crying like when daddy tries to teach [Jordan] math kind-of-cry" is not a pretty experience.

In Him,
:)